Remember That She Has Feelings Too
If you want your ex girlfriend to take you back, you will have to demonstrate to her that you are willing to be supportive and respectful, even if you are not a “couple”. There are several ways to show your support without being bothersome. For example, you might want to try a brief phone call or a short e-mail. The most difficult obstacle you will face is convincing her that things can change. Don’t misunderstand, it’s not you that necessarily has to change. Getting your girlfriend back may be a matter of changing some of your habits or tendencies. In this case, it will be necessary to take some time to reflect on your previous behavior before meeting with your ex. Take as much time as you need and be honest with yourself. When you are ready to speak openly with your ex, be sure to provide an honest apology. And keep in mind that compromise is essential to every relationship; her feelings and opinions are just as valid as your own.